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Cant believe what how naive I was. 10 years makes one much wiser. And experience will tell you anyone who needs anyone to change that much is not the right person for you. Cos if there is anything I have learned its that it's one thing to adapt and grow and compromise, but it's a totally another thing to be someone not yourself. And anyone who expects that doesn't deserve to be with you cos you're worth more than that. And I know my worth now. So for all the craziness, thanks for the reality check.
I'm glad you decided to give this relationship a chance and have dinner with me on our anniversary.
It is much easier to run when there's trouble than to work on things and it bodes well that we'll try to work on this cos we're fundamentally on the same page.
On my part, I am grateful that you give me a chance to redeem myself and I'll show you that I am a good partner, boyfriend and hopefully future muslim husband.
To your list of things good about me, I want to... no, will... add dependability and trust. It won't be easy I know but I've been jolted and I'll put in the work to earn it cos us da most important thing. So less talk, and more action from me.
1 - You've already shared you do not want me to club.
And to show you how sincere and serious I am to make this work, on my part until we work things out, I will do the following:
2- No couchsurfers, esp no girls. If you've noticed, I've changed my CS status.
3- I will not meet my friends who are girls, unless in a group of guys and girls.
4 - I will blog about my day, who I met, what I do, with whom. Cos not, or mis-communicating what I'm doing led to you getting surprised, and eroding our trust. I never wanna hide anything from u so it will there for you to see whenever u feel like. And will be on record so no arguments either way. If you, a friend, or whoever seeing me do something else, and blog says otherwise you have it in print.
5 - I will give you space and not call u for a week.
6 - But I will text you once a day. No need to reply. Just a friendly msg from your boyfriend.
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I just ask that you:
Take care of yourself & get better. Drink enough, eat enough, sleep enough. And try to eat your meds.
Keep an open mind
Open my lil' presents to cheer you up everyday.
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I'll pick you on our anniversary Sunday, 28 June at 6pm
(I'll call u friday 9pm to just confirm time k)
Cant believe what how naive I was. 10 years makes one much wiser. And experience will tell you anyone who needs anyone to change that much is not the right person for you. Cos if there is anything I have learned its that it's one thing to adapt and grow and compromise, but it's a totally another thing to be someone not yourself. And anyone who expects that doesn't deserve to be with you cos you're worth more than that. And I know my worth now. So for all the craziness, thanks for the reality check.
I'm glad you decided to give this relationship a chance and have dinner with me on our anniversary.
It is much easier to run when there's trouble than to work on things and it bodes well that we'll try to work on this cos we're fundamentally on the same page.
On my part, I am grateful that you give me a chance to redeem myself and I'll show you that I am a good partner, boyfriend and hopefully future muslim husband.
To your list of things good about me, I want to... no, will... add dependability and trust. It won't be easy I know but I've been jolted and I'll put in the work to earn it cos us da most important thing. So less talk, and more action from me.
1 - You've already shared you do not want me to club.
And to show you how sincere and serious I am to make this work, on my part until we work things out, I will do the following:
2- No couchsurfers, esp no girls. If you've noticed, I've changed my CS status.
3- I will not meet my friends who are girls, unless in a group of guys and girls.
4 - I will blog about my day, who I met, what I do, with whom. Cos not, or mis-communicating what I'm doing led to you getting surprised, and eroding our trust. I never wanna hide anything from u so it will there for you to see whenever u feel like. And will be on record so no arguments either way. If you, a friend, or whoever seeing me do something else, and blog says otherwise you have it in print.
5 - I will give you space and not call u for a week.
6 - But I will text you once a day. No need to reply. Just a friendly msg from your boyfriend.
---------
I just ask that you:
Take care of yourself & get better. Drink enough, eat enough, sleep enough. And try to eat your meds.
Keep an open mind
Open my lil' presents to cheer you up everyday.
---------
I'll pick you on our anniversary Sunday, 28 June at 6pm
(I'll call u friday 9pm to just confirm time k)
posted by MrTan @ 9:58 PM
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